Your Parents Named You Executor—But You Live Across the Country

What You Need to Know Before Taking the Job

It’s a call many people dread:
“Your mom passed away. You’re the executor.”

And then it hits you—you live 1,000 miles away.

Can You Still Serve?

Yes. Georgia allows out-of-state executors. But it comes with complications. You’ll likely need to work with a local attorney and may be required to post a bond, especially if the will doesn’t waive it.

You’ll also need to handle everything from opening the estate in probate court to managing property, mail, and bank accounts—all from afar.

The Practical Challenges

  • You may need to fly in to meet with the probate clerk or sign in person.
  • Accessing and securing the home can be difficult.
  • Managing estate sales, clean-outs, or realtors takes coordination and trusted local help.

If family tensions are brewing, your distance can become another point of friction.

What Are Your Options?

If you’re named executor but feel overwhelmed, you can decline the role. The court will typically appoint the next person listed, or a local administrator if there’s no backup.

Some families also use corporate executors—like trust companies—when no one is nearby or willing to step in.

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